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15

Nov

I wanted a perfect ending. Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next.
~ Gilda Radner

17

Oct

A must see…

04

Oct

Dress for yourself and the man you love (if there is one). Women dressing to impress other women — forget about that. It’s a very bad way of thinking.
Karl Lagerfeld (via ninagarcia)
ninagarcia:

The set of Alexander McQueen’s show

ninagarcia:

The set of Alexander McQueen’s show

Six things that are good for me…one that is not.  

The ‘Year of Health’ Birthday Wish-List:
1. Maybe I love torture…maybe I miss riding my bike down steep hills…or maybe I just need to get fit and burn calories.  Either way I love spin class cards.  www.flywheelsports.com
2. So in all things lady-like, I’ve spent time shopping for the perfect stiletto, pencil skirts galore and colorful lingerie.  Now that I’m focused on my health, it’s time to get gear that supports where I spend my time the most.  Enter Under Armour for Nordstrom and Zella.
3. I love color and texture.  I could speak about it for hours, I downright lust for it.  When I first saw this watch I loved it’s shine, close to a brand new penny.  The rose gold mirrors my favorite shade of pale pink.  It feels amazing on…the Nixon 42-20 Chronograph Watch.
4. I did something recently that I never thought I would do.  Sign-up to run a 5k.  Now, you may be thinking what is so special about that…well I don’t run. Really don’t run.  However, with the gentle pushing (a.k.a. straight clowning) of a good friend, I ran my furthest distance since high-school.  Needless to say, I’ve stumbled upon a new joy and need to visit Fleet Feet for new running shoes.
5. When you’ve treated your body like second-best…or third…or fourth for years, you’ve got to reset.  I’m a believer that it is 95% mental, but it also helps to detox on the journey to wellness.  Enter the 5-day Cooler Cleanse. 
6.  Making a committed change to behavior helps when you have an end-goal in sight.  For me it’s not a number, but the way I feel, my level of endurance and percentage of body fat.  That said, every woman needs a classic killer goal dress.
7.  The one thing that is bad for me….homemade strawberry cake.  It can’t be that bad if I only have it once a year, right?

Six things that are good for me…one that is not. 


The ‘Year of Health’ Birthday Wish-List:

1. Maybe I love torture…maybe I miss riding my bike down steep hills…or maybe I just need to get fit and burn calories.  Either way I love spin class cards.  www.flywheelsports.com

2. So in all things lady-like, I’ve spent time shopping for the perfect stiletto, pencil skirts galore and colorful lingerie.  Now that I’m focused on my health, it’s time to get gear that supports where I spend my time the most.  Enter Under Armour for Nordstrom and Zella.

3. I love color and texture.  I could speak about it for hours, I downright lust for it.  When I first saw this watch I loved it’s shine, close to a brand new penny.  The rose gold mirrors my favorite shade of pale pink.  It feels amazing on…the Nixon 42-20 Chronograph Watch.

4. I did something recently that I never thought I would do.  Sign-up to run a 5k.  Now, you may be thinking what is so special about that…well I don’t run. Really don’t run.  However, with the gentle pushing (a.k.a. straight clowning) of a good friend, I ran my furthest distance since high-school.  Needless to say, I’ve stumbled upon a new joy and need to visit Fleet Feet for new running shoes.

5. When you’ve treated your body like second-best…or third…or fourth for years, you’ve got to reset.  I’m a believer that it is 95% mental, but it also helps to detox on the journey to wellness.  Enter the 5-day Cooler Cleanse

6.  Making a committed change to behavior helps when you have an end-goal in sight.  For me it’s not a number, but the way I feel, my level of endurance and percentage of body fat.  That said, every woman needs a classic killer goal dress.

7.  The one thing that is bad for me….homemade strawberry cake.  It can’t be that bad if I only have it once a year, right?

02

Sep

Silent Musings :: 37 Things You Should Never Apologize For (And Why)

1. Never apologize for acting on your instincts.
 Listening to your body then taking action on what you hear
 is the hallmark of heroic people.

2. Never apologize for all the tears you’ve cried.
Crying cleanses the soul. Shoot for once a month.
Even if it’s just a brief mist at a tender moment in a sad movie.

3. Never apologize for anything in your resume/portfolio.
If you feel the need to do so, it probably doesn’t belong
in there in the first place.

4. Never apologize for asking for what you need.
The answer to every question you DON’T ask is always no.

5. Never apologize for asking questions.
 When you stop asking questions,
you don’t just run out of answers you run out of hope.

6. Never apologize for asserting yourself.
 The word assert comes from the Latin asserere, which means,
to claim, maintain or affirm. And that’s exactly what you’re entitled to: Your opinion. Your belief. Your say.
Let nobody take it away from you.

7. Never apologize for being a health nut.
Next time someone says, What are you, on a diet or something?
 look them straight in the eye and say,
Yeah you got a problem with that?
Then, when they back down, you go right back to eating your tofu.

8. Never apologize for being a newbie.
Every great chess master was once a beginner.

9. Never apologize for being early for an appointment.
In the history of Corporate America, no employee has ever been
 fired for consistently arriving ten minutes early to every meeting.

10. Never apologize for being funny.
The world is too damn serious. We need you. Seriously.

11. Never apologize for being human.
Once you do, you’re no longer human, you’re a cyborg.

12. Never apologize for being passionate.
Unless you’re passionate about stabbing strangers with
broken Coke bottles.

13. Never apologize for being smart.
 That’s the ONE thing the government, the media
 (and every other entity that’s trying to control you)
 is terrified of: Smart people who take action. Be one of those people.

14. Never apologize for being the age that you are.
It’s just a number. A chicken ain’t nothing but a bird, as my Grandpa likes to say.

15. Never apologize for breaking a rule that isn’t really a rule.
Be proud of yourself for being a rule breaker.
Then go break another one.

16. Never apologize for calling bullshit on someone.
Especially when nobody else is the room is going to do
 it and this person REALLY needs to be taken to task.

17. Never apologize for demanding respect.
If you’ve demonstrated that you deserve respect by giving it to others first, you’re good to go.

18. Never apologize for disagreeing.
Especially if you do so respectfully. On the other hand,
if you’re disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing,
or because of your pathological need to be right,
that’s a different story.

19. Never apologize for expressing yourself.
That’s all “leadership” is:
The full, free expression of your truth.
 Don’t say you’re sorry for that.

20. Never apologize for falling in love.
Your heart’s calling the shots.

21. Never apologize for falling OUT of love.
Your heart’s still calling the shots even when you throw up an air ball.

22. Never apologize for getting something off your chest.
That which you suppress will find a home in your body.
And then it will trash the place.

23. Never apologize for giving it your best shot.
 As my Grandpa also reminded me,
“You do the best you can with as many as you can.”

24. Never apologize for growing up privileged.
As long as you scrap the entitlement attitude,
remain grateful for everything you’ve ever been given
and respect the life situation of those who are less fortunate, it’s all good.

25. Never apologize for having an overabundance of love in your life.
Instead, circulate what you’ve got. Pay it forward.
Share it. People need it.

26. Never apologize for lack of experience.
Instead, share your Learning Plan; demonstrate
your dedication to lifelong learning and practice
becoming the world’s expert at learning from your experiences.

27. Never apologize for lack of information.
Ignorance is acceptable. Staying ignorant, however, is stupid.

28. Never apologize for liking stupid movies.
Movie snobs annoy me. Some of my favorite movies
are among the most ridiculous films ever made.
So I love Hangover. Sue me.

29. Never apologize for living your truth.
Few things in the world are more important.

30. Never apologize for looking out for yourself.
Self-preservation is a primary driver of human behavior.
 It’s how we’re wired.

31. Never apologize for loving yourself.
If you do, you probably don’t love yourself as much as you thought.

32. Never apologize for making a decision from the heart.
Remember: It’s not thee truth it’s YOUR truth.

33. Never apologize for needing alone time.
Solitude is soil. Solitude is medicine.
And if you don’t get your fix every day, your life will suffer.

34. Never apologize for needing to use the bathroom.
Yesterday a woman in my class walked out of the
room and actually said to the instructor,
I have to pee, I’m SO sorry. Unbelievable.

35. Never apologize for not being there when someone called.
You have a life, too. People can’t expect you to wait eagerly
by the phone all hours of the day.

36. Never apologize for not embracing someone else’s agenda.
Especially if that agenda robs you of your true talent.

37. Never apologize for occasional absentmindedness.
Everyone’s brain farts.
Be well & Be good to each other.

31

Aug

I want a soul mate who can sit me down, shut me up, tell me ten things I don’t already know, and make me laugh. I don’t care what you look like, just turn me on. And if you can do that, I will follow you on bloody stumps through the snow. I will nibble your mukluks with my own teeth. I will do your windows. I will care about your feelings. Just have something in there.
Henry Rollins (via arbagalapa)

(Source: serialstranger)

22

Aug

Perfect way to spend this afternoon…

washingtonpoststyle:

The Martin Luther King Jr. memorial opened to the public today. Full coverage.
Photo by Chip Somodevilla (Getty)

washingtonpoststyle:

The Martin Luther King Jr. memorial opened to the public today. Full coverage.

Photo by Chip Somodevilla (Getty)

13

Jul

Joy Denalane…

08

Jul



Philipp Otto Runge’s Color Sphere
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Philipp Otto Runge’s Color Sphere

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This made me smile today. 

20

Jun

Shoes I love for Fall…These most likely won’t make it out of the house.  ;-)

Shoes I love for Fall…These most likely won’t make it out of the house.  ;-)

Shoes I love for Fall…Part Three

Shoes I love for Fall…Part Three

Shoes I love for Fall…Part Two

Shoes I love for Fall…Part Two